Personal stories dating abuse
My wife Elin is a survivor of teen dating violence—which means she was in a relationship with someone very controlling.Almost two years ago she shared with me her desire to share her story in hopes that by doing so she would help other teens, parents, and survivors.If they are not for sure what love is then reach out to someone and really find out because a lot of kids growing up now-a-days don’t really understand what love is.They think they do, they think they see it on TV, but it’s not what TV shows, it’s not sometime what they were raised in the house with.So I told Joe that I wanted to terminate the pregnancy and that is when it all started. For the 1st time he hit me right across the face because I said I was leaving him. store and said we are going shopping so stop crying like a baby. He said, "If you were a good girl I wouldn't have to discipline you so much." I hated hearing that. I had my daughter and I thought it would help us but it didn't. The black eyes and busted lips and bruised body was all I knew and he was taking my heart too.He acted like it was nothing and I knew it was wrong but I did as I was told. I thought an older man would be better for me but I was wrong! I was no longer living near my parents and I was forbidden to have friends or should I say a life? We would spend lovely times together just having fun.
Rape stories detail the many abuses that some people suffer and yet survive and go on to succeed in recovering and regaining control of their lives.We thought we were doing everything correctly and then everything happened.” “We give statistics on teen dating violence, then we do a few skits to try and get the kids involved and see different types of dating scenarios.Then we tell our story and what happened in our case.” “Through gathering information for the trial and talking to our friends after we learned a lot to things that we didn’t know — we didn’t know how controlling he was, we knew he kept tabs on her, but we didn’t know he had isolated her from her really close friends.” she said.My name is Linda and I started having a bad life at 18. After we were dating for about 2.5 months I found out I was pregnant and I wanted no more children. I seemed important to him; at least I thought I was.