Online dating game pua
These are the five attraction triggers: This will form the basis of our online strategy.We also need to consider some implications of these attraction triggers that may not be obvious to us at first glance.They always have some excuse: “I’m too busy to meet men in real life” or “I didn’t want to make a profile so my friend made it for me” or “I’m just on here for fun because I was bored at home”. Girls can see through a lot of these (they do it too, after all), so unfortunately none of them are foolproof.My favorites have been some variant of either “I’m really picky, and I’m trying to find the perfect girl whom I haven’t come across in person” or “I work for myself and I’m a health nut who doesn’t go to bars (or I find girls in bars to be trashy and not worth my time), so I don’t really have any good way to meet girls”.The point is that being on Instagram, Facebook, or Linked In does not automatically subcommunicate “I need online dating because I can’t get women in real life” the way typical online dating profiles do.Once a girl I matched on Tinder asked me “I saw your Instagram and you’re really popular, why are you on Tinder? To women, non-dating apps and websites are almost as good as real life pre-selection.The information I’m sharing here is generally applicable to any sort of online game, whether you’re using Tinder, POF, Instagram, Facebook or something else.Each individual platform will have its own unique tricks and strategies, which you should definitely explore after choosing a platform.
I like to start with the five attraction triggers (link NSFW) first divined by PUA godfather Mystery as a basis for both my pictures and profile description.
However if you pretend to be pre-selected by women but act in a way that is not congruent with that characterization, women will be turned off. This is the attitude of the alpha male–the man who is pre-selected by women–and you want this attitude to come through your online profile. You can probably figure this out for yourself if you think about it for a minute, but I’ll share my answers as well.
Think for a second about a man you know whom women love. He would have pictures of himself with cool people and doing interesting, fun things.
It’s all about the impression, and you’re going to fake it until you make it.
If you are using a platform that is explicitly designed for dating (such as POF, OKCupid, Tinder, Match, etc.), you are going to have to come up with a good answer for the question “If you’re such a ladies’ man, why do you need an online dating profile? Regardless of whether or not a girl asks you this question outright, you can be pretty sure she is going to be thinking it.