So if you are who you are, and you put up exactly what you look like, you’re still going to get the same amount of men to swipe, and say yes.
We even give the date time, because we are praying that we become more attracted to you, but to be honest with you, it is either there or not. That way you get a quality lead – someone who is excited and says hell yes. 1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success.
Yeah, it goes both ways - men and women can't help themselves.
I think the reason they do it is because they are hoping you'll fall for their stellar personality and other qualifications and ignore what initially attracted you in the first place.
Before I tell you what our greatest fear is, you’re going to hear the most raw, true confession, ever. We go, we text with you on one of those silly apps like Bumble or Tinder. Let me tell you something, and this is not to sound egotistical or anything else. You see, our biggest fear is that you don’t look like your picture. We even look and try to find your worst picture, and think, if she looks like this, we’re okay. You’re masters at angles, and Photoshop, and sunglasses on in your pictures, and other deceiving pictures. A friend of mine, Obie, is not attracted to any of the women that I pick out. You see, when ever you fake somebody out, they get annoyed, you get annoyed, and then the two of you get off of the online dating app and trash it, and say it doesn’t work. Even when you don’t show up looking like your picture, what goes through my mind and every other male was God, I wanted to like you. Maybe more so than you are, not saying you’re not, but we truly are visual creatures.
For those of us that are even more daring, we get on the phone and have a phone conversation with you. You see, we’re tired of all the swiping, dating, flaking, and all of the other unbelievable shit that comes with modern dating. As a matter of fact, the choo-choo whistle is blowing. When you show up on the date, and we look at you and we think to ourselves, again, because that is the first thing that comes to our mind. We have been using religious terms here because we are praying for you to look like your pictures. For you, you absolutely beautiful, amazing woman, be what you are, show what you are all about.
Standing out is good, but being yourself is better.
To prove this wrong he searches for his one true love and the happiness this will bring.
One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place. I did marry my first husband however, despite walking right by him at the airport when we first me and I was picking him up. I was irritated at first and I said why would you use photos that are 10 years old? "Well you cut your hair from the photo you sent me!
" (Mind you it wasn't that different, I just got a couple inches cut off, it's still long.) Wow.
If you’ve got a relationship on the side, it will eventually be revealed.
The fact that contestants think they can get away with a literal homegirl (or guy) without getting caught never ceases to amaze us.