Dating woman going thru divorce
I love him, but I also hate him for coming into my life, passing through it like a tornado and just left leaving me to clean up the destruction he left me in. it doesn't seem that they would jump into another committed relationship after leaving another. The waiting for him to call, the not knowing what was going on and not to mention knowing he was going home to her every night..good. My advice to all of you is to get yourself to a better place and know that someday you will meet the man of your dreams and he won't be attached to anyone only you! Hi Holly, so did you actually stick it out until the divorce was through and discover then that he didn't want a relationship with you or did you reach that conclusion before the divorce was over like I did?It definitely is comforting to know that soo many others out there have experienced this, I thought I was the only one foolish enough to have been sucked in to his tornado. Us woman cling on to the fantasy that we are going to end up happily ever after together and really they just want to fill the sexual void until they are free to go out there and openly date other woman.I told him when we met at the weekend that I felt I was nothing more than a distraction and I didn;t think he would ever want more than just a piece of me and that I would get hurt.
I am deeply sadened and feel I've done something to cause him to want to end this relationship. I would think he is going through reality phase of a very difficult time. Lovingly give him his space and let him work his man thing out. We have hardly spoken since returning from a vacation that ended with him cancelling our valentines plans. For example, if he needs someone to talk to, he may just turn to you again. Well it has been a week since my relationship ended and I am still crying.
I really think I am zoo naive and must have the word TARGET indented on my forehead because I seem to so vulnerable to these types of men.
He used to a lot nicer to me, at least butter me and sweeten me up with lots of texts and phone calls the week leading up to a meet up and then afterwards its like he would;t have the time of day for me.
I am a stong, sensible woman but when it comes to him I can't seem to get it together... If our relationship is meant to be, it will be AFTER HIS DIVORCE. I am at the point where I'm ready to take that chance for ME AND MY HAPPINESS. Hi, I was also dating a man going through a divorce.
Yeah, unfortunately..you let a guy be friends with you after, he will recreate the relationship and dictate new terms. Men know we want relationships and they have learned to carrot dangle and they get what they want and we get to sit there and jump hoops. It lasted about 15 month and just this passed weekend we had the "talk" initiated by me.