Dating two guys at once
Once you have an unspoken date on Saturday night (you both just already know you'll have plans with each other), you have moved into the first phase of a relationship.I point this out because, within the first few dates with one man, you shouldn't allow yourself to feel so emotionally attached that seeing someone else would be a problem.However, you'll need to behave honestly and ethically to make it work. So many of my clients ask me whether dating more than one guy at a time is a wise idea.If you’re seeing one guy who makes you feel happy and confident, other men are attracted to that happiness and confidence.So it’s no coincidence if it seems that you’re either going through a dry spell at certain times, or conversely that you find yourself having to choose between multiple men. Don’t say no to a date with one guy who you hit it off with just because things are going well with someone else.Some people choose to have multiple relationships at once for their whole lives.If you're thinking of dating multiple women at once, it can be done.
This limits your options before you even know if you're on the right path.
I then met one guy who I got with and went a little further almost going “all the way” and then he started to text me a lot, and seemed really keen to meet up with me again.
It got dragged out for personal reasons, but I finally met up with him and went on a “date.” It was a little awkward but we made conversation, kissed a bit, and there was a bit of holding hands and leg touching.
After I was home, one of my friends (a guy) started to text me trying to get me to come out and see him. Deep down I still have some feelings for him, he’s asked me to come over for sex, and I kinda want to but know I shouldn’t because I’ll end up hurting someone. I feel like a bit of a s*** but I’m so confused on what to do? You don’t say how old you are, but typically young people—even people in their 20s—take their time settling down.
How do I politely postpone the invitation without giving the impression I don’t want to see him? (I dont know how I feel about him, but he seems really nice and wanting to see me again? So it’s okay to date more the one person, get a taste of different personalities, and see what suits you the best.