Dating older men after divorce
A couple in their 40's, 50's or 60's gets divorced and the husband takes up with a woman 20 or sometimes even 30 years younger. I think many men, after a divorce, think they have something to prove.
Meanwhile, the wife is faced with dating men 20 or more years older than herself because men typically prefer younger women after they divorce. To be able to date a younger woman makes them feel younger, more attractive and vital.
Their reasons stem mostly from the comfort and commonality they feel with someone of a similar age.
In closing, the other day, I happened to see a man in the Nordstrom lingerie department who looked like he was around 60.
I know alot of guys like younger women, but they don't work for me.
Men should stop kidding themselves and face the truth. Relying on anyone outside yourself to feel attractive, young, or needed is a mistake.Instead these men need to rediscover the women in their own age group and appreciate them for their wisdom and maturity.Many middle aged men do not even fully understand what they are getting themselves into with a younger woman.They enjoy showing off their much younger date as some sort of trophy or prize.What they do not realize is that the woman they are dating may be only interested in them for the financial security they can provide.