Blackmen and white women only dating

We stood on the head of our warnings every day as we got to know each other. I knew I was a far away from the Latina girls he was used to with silk hair, milk-toffee skin, and sharp tongues: I had forgotten how vulnerable it felt to be black in the apartment building lobby of a potential love. Before every date I would always buy myself a new outfit or piece of clothing to impress him, as though being constantly new would distract from any shortcomings.I would stretch my hair every inch that I could, to make it appear longer. There were days when we fought and said things to each other like “That must have been from how you were raised.” We got assaulted on the street by men who would yell “Black and white don’t mix” and smash their shoulders into ours.Half of my mother’s four sisters are married to white men.

He supported my work and called me Butterfly; our relationship was nauseatingly blissful. I posted photos of black love on every social media account and considered myself as part of a larger revolution.

He rode skateboards and carried around napkins in his front pocket, a habit he’d learned from his grandpa.

He joked like friends from my hometown, but there was a newness to his voice that I didn’t know.

We live together in a small studio in Chelsea, where we cook dinners and take showers.

We ask each other about dessert options and call each other good-looking even though we have gained weight.

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