Asian dating trans

I think it’s real interesting that women of color are always subjected to a high level of scrutiny by men of color regarding who they date (which, I believe, is another form of control).

Who Asian women date is of no concern to you, especially when you only care about getting to be with an Asian woman yourself, as opposed to the emotional, physical, and mental well-being of Asian women.

Never mind the fact that Romero has conveniently left out other relationships that don’t fit the heteropatriarchy.

There are whole relationships in our community that don’t include a man and a woman.

That “Asian women have been socially influenced to think that white men are more attractive than Asian men because Western media has emasculated Asian men.”c.

That “Asian women just don’t want to admit that they have a white guy fetish so they put the blame on the dudes.”First off, if what lands in the ear from reading those statements is “Asian women are to blame for the problems that plague Asian men” then please know you are not alone.

And that is exactly why what manifested on the blogs, on comment sections, and on online platforms is that way of thinking. To say that Asian women exert a greater amount of privilege relative to Asian men, is just simply To be fetishized and objectified is NOT privilege. And even beyond desirability, Asian women are placed in danger through various other ways.

If we are in the business of being free, we have to look at the problem that created it.We can do a lot more good when we do away with this idea that Asian men and women won’t be complete without each other.Asian men should absolutely have the space to talk about their masculinity with one another.There are a lot of Asian women and white men couples that are not rooted in problematic power structures, that just simply happened to be.And for those that do have problematic tendencies, the appropriate response is not to center Asian men but to center how the intersection of sexism and racism has helped formed those attitudes in Asian women.

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